In a single moment, my son's life changed in ways a thief might never imagine. After all, why would a thief care about the devastating ripple effect of something stolen from another?

Recently, Taylor's iPhone was stolen from his table at McDonald's. For Taylor, the moment was horrific. You see, his phone wasn't just for telephone calls. Rather, his iPhone was his daily reminder, tracking system and alarm to get him where he needs to be.

Taylor needs his phone because he has autism, and the iPhone was his tangible support.

You might remember Taylor from his film "Normal People Scare Me." He has given much to our community in volunteerism and extending himself in service and education to others. Growing up here in T.O has been a great opportunity for Taylor.

We moved here for the lack of crime and for the pace of suburban life in what is- on and off- "the safest" city. After settling here 12 years ago, Taylor flourished despite the daily struggles of autism.

The support he received and still receives today have made a huge difference for him.

But now that his iPhone is gone, we have new challenges. His compass to keep him on track and get to Moorpark College is sadly now in the hands of someone else.

I know the person who stole his phone thought they made a great score. There was no thought of the tremendous impact they would make on another person. But that impact ripples beyond a mere object that can be pawned, sold or used by another.

After the incident, Taylor missed school. He was depressed, felt "stupid" and betrayed. But the biggest burn of all is the reality that some people are not kind, thoughtful or caring. For Taylor, this was the harshest lesson of all.

To people out there who steal from others: I hope you wake up to see you are part of what makes us afraid for our children, families, city and our world. Keri Bowers Thousand Oaks