Experts answer question of 'Why kids ask why'

Understanding why kids ask "Why?" helps parents connect with their children.

Experts say such inquisitiveness- which can include questions about the physical world, feelings and relationships, and even about change and loss- helps children learn and grow.

"Parents should actively encourage their youngsters' curiosity," said educational consultant Dr. Renee Cherow-O'Leary. "Asking questions indicates that children are noticing the world around them. They are listening to others talk and developing language to formulate their own understanding of what they see. It is important for parents to respond to questions and answer them appropriately when they are asked."

But what if a parent doesn't actually know why the sky is blue or why puppies have tails? Not to worry. It's less key that a parent answers directly, experts say, than it is that adults respond in a calming voice that lets the child know they're paying attention.

Parents and children can have fun seeking out the answers to questions at the library or even online, but not every question has to have an answer. Children can be encouraged to answer their own question as in, "That's a great question! Why do you think the sky is blue?"

And parents can also use informal learning opportunities at places like puppet shows, museums or parks to help stimulate a child's thinking process.

Research shows that certain TV shows may help, too, but the key is to encourage children to "actively watch" by questioning and learning about what they see.

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